Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Deragatory remarks

When you first meet him and fall in love, you notice he talks bad about a lot of people.

He just needs to learn the worth of souls.  You can teach him.   You plan how you will teach him over time to accept the differences of others, to understand others, and not to talk so bad about everyone.

He calls people he doesn't like, "A waste of human flesh."

Yeah.

But over time, you are not the one who wins.

In time you become accustomed to it.  You begin to worry about him noticing your faults like he does others.  

In vulnerable moments, you notice that you personally redirect his hatred, malice, anger, and sour words to others so he misses you as a target.

In time, if you're not careful, instead of teaching him to stop criticizing others, you become like him.

You come to learn that to gain his respect you have to put others down and look down on others as he does.

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