Unity

Unity is an important factor in marriage and relationships.

To be one.  AtOneMent.

At first your Unity in the relationship seems beautiful and wonderful. 

But in Corrupt relationships, Unity becomes corrupted.

In a corrupt relationship,you come to realize that your unity means you can't dissagree, you can't think for yourself, you can't have your own ideas and aspirations.

Absolute Oneness is mandatory.   All your ideas are considered, "poorly thought out." 

Any hobby is put down.  Any dream.  

You make sacrifice everything for their aspirations, but if you want the simplest thing, you are shot down. 

In healthy relationships there is unity, but it's cooperative unity.  Each partner retains their own identity, their own creativity, their own talents.  

The partner's gifts and talents may seem opposite, but complimentary.  Your strengths are his weaknesses, and your weaknesses are his strengths.

Each partner brings in his or her own abilitys and those abilities complete each other.

By differences you become complete, you become one.