The stupidest thing a man can do

The stupidest thing a man can do is work hard to persuade the mother of his children that he's a monster with a twisted mind who can justify any vile act. 

So many work hard to persuade the world they are wonderful, all while persuading the mother of his children that he's a sick bastard, consumed by lust and anger, shallow, weak minded, petty, willing to harm, hurt, abuse, even kill his own children to get his way.

If they had half a brain cell, they'd work on continuing to impress and serve the mother. 

Dimwits.

How you support your Co-Creators

The Creator, and man and woman together create new life. New life is everything. How we treat our co-creator's and what we create is everything. 

The number one thing we will be judged by is how we treat our co-creators and how we support what we create.

No matter what happens in life, we are obligated to love and support them. You can never please God by abandoning and abusing our co-creators or our creations.

Yet, abusers think they are heroes when they abuse their co-creators and creations.

If you see an inadequacy in your co-creator, that is your opportunity to step up and fill the gap in respectful loving kindness.

If you abandon your co-creator or creations, you are held accountable for every adversity they face without you by your negligence. All of the suffering and hardship is on you.

Everything that goes wrong, even and especially due to the weakness on your co-creator's part is on you. You are the other third of the equation.

Jesus used a term one place, and one place only. "Causeth her" In Matthew 5:32 Jesus used a word he never uses. "Causeth her", "drives her into it" in the Hebrew, it's the only time that Jesus transfers accountability from one person to another. Jesus holds the abandoner responsible for what follows, something unique for Jesus. Every where else, Jesus holds us alone for our actions. But Jesus knew that women, mothers, will do what they have to do, give up what they have, do anything to save and protect their children, and often make mistakes while doing so. The accountability for those mistakes, Jesus transfers to the abandoner.

So many times I've seen single mothers desperate to care and fill the needs of their children, marry poorly, hoping to fill the gap their co-creator abandoned. Jesus hold the fathers accountable for this.

A mother is entitled to love and support from both her co-creators. 

The number one thing a man will be judged for by the great Creator, is how he treats the mother, the woman who gave birth to, nursed, cared for, bled for, sacrificed for his children.

Not even death absolves the accountability as we become their guardian angels.

God, the great creator, has always served me faithfully. While he has expected me to pass through great adversity, ultimately my creator has been there.