Unrightesous Submission

Women (and/or men) who subject themselves to abusive partners, submitting their own intelligence and wills, manifest cocktails of untreatable physical illnesses.

No amount of medical treatments, surgeries and procedures can save them.

Mental health is entwined with physical health.  There is nothing mentally healthy with absolute submission to a man who believes your greatest potential is to serve their personal utilitarian needs.

We are more than that. If only such women could see their potential.

I can no longer control my filter, so if I would do more harm than good to a particular woman who's suffered from a long life of submission to such a man, I would only bring her early death by visiting her.

My Shining South Star

I have a female in my life I call my shining south star, among many other names.

She shines bright, and due south.  Anytime I've found myself on the same path, I've double, triple, quadruple checked my compass.

I did spend many years spending time with her in the hopes of redirecting her compass, but it was all of no avail.  She spent more time trying to "correct" my compass.

So when I find she completely disapproves of me, oh honey, I'm good with that.  I've watched her lead many, especially men, to feel good about doing evil.

My Shining South Star

PS She always had this amazing skill of directing you away from a current potential battle, all while whispering words to amplify your hate, malic, self-justification and focus it thus appearing the peacemaker while actually being a hatemonger.

Keeping Secrets

I used to think I was helping by keeping their secrets, the bad secrets.  But I've learned that when you do so, you condemn them to hell and become a part of their corruption.  If you love them, stand up to them, speak the truth. They can have other friends that encourage them to stand with confidence with broccoli in their teeth and tp hanging out their pants.

Many people mistakenly believe that when you tell them the truth you are their enemy, when in fact you are their greatest ally.

I don't want those I love to rot in hell, I want to save them.  So if they are abusive and you still love them, stand up to them.

Broken Hearts

She has serious heart problems that required open-heart surgery because she's married to a b****** who looks down on women, even his most beautiful wife as inferior to himself, and doesn't give a crap about what she actually thinks, doesn't actually believe that she thinks anything valuable. Yes, they seem like the perfect couple, no they are most certainly not. She dresses beautiful every day because, after all these years, she still believes she will be abandoned if not. She was broken as a child, and he took advantage of that to demand exact obedience of her. He preyed on her deep childhood fears of abandonment. She's lost her ability to think for herself, have her own opinions, pursue her own talents, (those that are not utilitarian to him). When she gives a talk in church, he graciously writes it for her, because who on earth wants to hear from her. The only time he pays attention to her is when she's sick, then he is noble and cares for her physical ailments. It's her body's only means of speaking out. You can tell how he treats her just by her health. He's used religion to make her believe that she must subject herself to him and all his whims, and give up her own thinking. She cannot love and defend her children when hurt if it threatens him. I think I know exactly when he finally broke her completely. You can see it in her picture history. The wife of a dominating man, cannot love. His widow mother tried to say she was distressed by how her husband (his father) treated her. So He, her son, declares her "mentally unstable." Thus his wife sees that and knows, that if she expresses distress, she too will be declared "mentally unstable". Thus he makes an example of his own mother to subject women. So she carries on as the "perfect" wife for years and years, but her heart can't fake it.